Miss time!

Miss time! The title can be seen in many ways, the way I am looking is not far, what you all might be thinking. But it has bit of both miss and a chance which I would have missed, it is seriously, about a, about to miss chance to bring that miss into my life. Yes!  Like everyone I too got a chance to get a lady love in my life , what happened was I used to go for jogging daily and being a Arjun Kapoor fan I kept beard and thought myself to be macho , before that I used to be clean shaved . A gal of my society used to come for jogging too, and daily we used to see each other jogging and sometimes we used to pass the smiles too. It was going good, we started exchanging hi and bye too. This was going smoothly, until I watched two back to back movies of Arjun Kapoor with a beard, being a die-hard fan after watching the movie went for the same beard style and thought that I should ask her number next day for sure , thinking myself to be Arjun Kapoor went for jogging and after some time , I saw her coming as soon as she crossed, I passed smile , but today the response was dull and a halfhearted smile bounced back from her side, I thought she may be tensed and all that is the reason  but this happened for around 3 – 4 days and for next 4-5 days , I didn't saw her in the jogging park, I thought what happened to her and till that time I came back into my original style with a clean shaved face , I went the next day and seen her she seem to be happy and nice again smile exchanged with a hi and she returned the same energy , I felt good and confident and that day after so long hi and bye we exchanged sentences not only words , today we are committed and why that dull hi and bye started was because of my step of keeping a beard , she like me when I am with a clean-shaven face 

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you never know

Life changes with a blink of an eye, seriously you never know what can happen and when? The day was my examination of my graduation and my friend Ramesh a very decent guy in all aspects just had a bet before exam that, he will not shave till the end of exams that sound weird. Yes wired but nothing can be done Boys! Will be Boys!  On the day of second last exam, the external checking squad entered the room and started checking the id’s and other things to catch the defaulters. Turn came to my friend Ramesh, ID card shows a clean shaved and smart boy pic and the reality was totally contrasting which made the squad alert and seeing scrubby face and he was unshaven from last 15 days , giving a “baba” types look , he was clear on his part but the doubt in the mind due to his unshaven face , led him to problem and after 30 min he came back , which a down face , he said principle confirmed then he was allowed and whole process took around 30 min and nothing can make up that time loss , that too in final semester exams . That day he realized that clean shaven face not only make you look, younger, smart but keep you away from these types of problems. On his 23^rd birthday whole batch gifted him a Gillette kit including a Mach 3 Turbo, Gillette shaving gel, Gillette shaving brush and other essentials. He won the bet, but this bet made him to learn a lesson that how well is to be clean shaven rather an unshaven face. Whenever we meet, no one forgets to recollect that day and that bet and after 2 years still that day has a solid impact in our lives and all try to be clean shaved.




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#WillYouShave- you never know !!!

Guests are like surprises, you never know when they might approach you; but you must be prepared for such time well in advance and should have some preparation and gear up saying, “C’mon I am game for it." This, is something I realized when I a chance which I was looking for so many years and left empty handed, banging my head for my laziness and ignorance .
Life is really pretty unpredictable, it can change your scores in seconds. It was a surprise visit by the Director of our college, to our college premises with the intention to check the growth of the college and the achievements so far.
Those days I was the key speaker of the college and my college head coordinator came informing me, “Sir, our director sir came and would like to discuss about our college's growth and achievements and Dean sir asked you to be there .
I was in shock, not because he gave a surprise visit to the college and wanted to interact about the development and growth of the institution, but because I was wearing a stubble face that day, which I had simply ignored while leaving for the college with the thought of shaving it some other day. And as the adage goes, 'Tomorrow never comes' and this laziness was about to kill me other moment.
I approached the Dean of the college and he took a hard look at me and his reaction was enough for me to know clearly, what could possibly be going on in his mind.
That long hard stare was followed by, “What is this?". I had no answer and kept my head low. I was feeling embarrassed and in the meantime, I was about to say something, but what I heard next left me in shock. He said, “This chance may let you to get scholarship for the years left and in this stubble look, is this possible?”
I understood what he was trying to point out and she called an another guy and I was asked to explain all in and out about what and how and the stats with me and which was given to me and explained him how to present and everything, thus giving him a chance of interacting. Next month his scholarship was announced that all because of his clean shaven face. I lost the chance of being the one, despite all my hard work and efforts I had put in. It was not me but my Stubble look which made me to loose this golden chance.






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कुछ अनकहे लम्हे

कुछ  अनकहे  लम्हो को संजोना चाहता था यह मन।
अपने दिमाग को रख तरफ ,दिल पर गौर फरमाना चाहता था मन।
किसी के अरमान को अपनाने को कतराने लगा था यह मन।
क्यों चाहा था ,इतना कि अपने आपको ,अपने आप से ,मिलाने पे घबराने लगा था मन।
अपनों के पास होकर , कही दूर भटकने  लगा था यह मन।
अपना होकर भी ना जाने ,अनजान सा हो गया था यह मन।
पता नहीं किस दुविधाओ के चौराहो पर भटक रहा था यह मन।
आना चाहते थे बहुत  बनकर अपने ,मगर इतनी ख़ामोशी देखी की किसी से भी घबराने लगा था यह मन।
ज़िन्दा होना ,इस मन का अकेलापन था ,या इस अकेलेपन का एक जीता जागता एह्सास।
अजीब मन  कि जुंजुलाहट को हल्का करने को दौड़ता था यह मन।
इस ज़िंदगी कि ज़िद ,को ज़िंदा रखकर  और बेइज्जत महसूस कर टूटता ,बिखरता था यह मन।
किसी के अरमानो में ,आशियाना बनाने को कतराने लगा था यह मन।
इस अँधेरी राहो ,के अँधेरे में भी पता नहीं क्यू कुछ अनकहे लम्हो को संजोना चाहता था यह मन। ………आज  भी
कुछ  अनकहे  लम्हो को संजोना चाहता  हैं  यह मन।

ferito

Just have a eye on the words that follow...to discover what this ferito means??????What made me to start a blog named FERITO?????

Lets discover....:)

FERITO an Italian word which means "wounded"... hey don't take this wounded with the physical wounds, in my blog... it relates the wounded emotions,life and relations ,love and more n more n more......

"Life" a small word with daily changing figures, life bring a new role for us everyday and these roles brings up unique persona in us ,which is similar to me and all ,which forzato (force) me squeeze the meaning of life and a gave thought that , we all are wounded some or the other way..and expressing it through a blog is best way to be connected with all and within you all......a new rising sun will bring the new start that too with a bang!!! and hope u all will be their to help me and to share and to be rare among all to comments,to help me to justify my thoughts my experiences...

some one wacky !!!!!